Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 09:44
Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.
That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.
It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.
People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.
If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.
No country for ugly people…
Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.
BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.
If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.